Dating apps are dead. Here’s where to meet hot girls IRL.
Side note: bathroom selfies do not belong on your dating profile.
Dating is tough—but not for the reasons you think. Hot girls are flooded with average dudes on Hinge who have no idea what they’re doing. Bad selfies, boring convos, and no sense of what women actually want. Now here’s where you come in. While those guys are missing the mark, you’re going to set yourself apart.
The key? Position yourself strategically.
Stop relying on swipes and start taking real-life action. The competition out there is not as stiff as you think. But first if you’re new here, I don’t let you sleep on the best dating strategies. My group chats are getting boring because my single gfs have no one to date. If you’re waiting for the perfect time to take action, it’s now.
Girls Want to Meet You—But You’ve Gotta Show Up
You might not realize it, but the girls you want to date are looking for you. They want a guy who stands out, knows what he’s doing, and takes charge. The problem is most guys aren’t making the effort. They’re sitting at home swiping, waiting for matches to come to them. You need to put yourself in places where hot girls are—and I’m not talking about dating apps. The apps are just a backup plan. Here’s your next move:
1. Work from a Coffee Shop
Paying $7 for matcha is part of the hot girl’s daily routine. Overpriced, trendy coffee shops are her headquarters. If you bring your laptop and work from a communal table, you’ve now positioned yourself strategically to chat with the hot girl next to you.
2. Take a Yoga or Pilates Class
Hot yoga and Pilates are packed with fit (and somewhat spiritual hot girls)—and yet, barely any guys show up. If she’s paying $89/month for ClassPass and more than she’d like to admit on her Equinox membership, hello??? She’s doing it to look good… for her future boyfriend. Start going to these classes, and you’ll have zero competition.
3. Join a Natural Wine Club
Natural wine clubs are basically modern-day dating apps. Local wine shops usually have a wine club with monthly bottles and events. It’s the easiest way to meet hot girls in your neighborhood all while sharing your deep devotion to natural wine.
(My top wine picks are Tinto-Amorio, Wavy, Austin Winery, and Soto Vino)
In conclusion, stop relying on the apps.
Dating apps aren’t going to do the heavy lifting for you. If you want to meet hot girls, you’ve got to take the reins. Get out there, be strategic, and start showing up in places where connections actually happen.
Now tell me this. Where’s the best place you’ve met hot girls IRL? Drop it in the comments. Or, you know, just lurk silently. Your call.
x Lisa ⚡
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