10 Niche Things Hot Girls Love (That Will Instantly Make You Better at Dating)

You don’t have to like strawberry matcha or know your birth time—but if you want to date hot girls, it helps to understand why she does.

Let me make this easy. Dating hot girls isn’t about being 6’3”, having a boat, or pretending you’re too cool to care. It’s about language. Energy. Showing her—without saying it—that you understand her world. That you’ve been around girls like her before and didn’t completely fumble it.

Because the last guy she dated? He rolled his eyes at her sound bath. Made fun of her $12 adaptogen latte. Refused to try Pilates because “that’s not a real workout.” That guy is gone.

But you? You’re the reset. The refreshing, emotionally available hot guy she tells her friends about. You don’t have to be into everything she likes—you just need to know how to play it cool. It’s the difference between “he’s kinda cute” and “wait… how does he know about that?”

I met up with a couple guy friends in Venice and they couldn’t stop raving about these girls they’d met earlier. “Lisa—they gave us a full tarot reading. And we were into it.” Of course they were because they live in Venice, and they understand the dating market. That moment led to an Instagram follow… which turned into meeting up that night… which turned into (you get the picture).

They passed her initial vibe check. And you can too.

Here are 10 things hot girls are super into right now. You don’t have to pretend to love them. You just need to understand the world she lives in—so when she brings up something niche, you’re already two steps ahead. Let’s begin:

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1. Strawberry Matcha

It’s not just a drink. It’s a full mood. The pink + green combo? Elite. Bonus points if you casually say:

“(Insert Coffee Shop) has the best strawberry matcha by far.”

You just gained 20 hot girl credibility points without even ordering one yourself.

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2. Hot Yoga

She doesn’t work out to be fit. She works out to look rich. Hot yoga is where hot girls go to sweat, eavesdrop on influencer gossip, and compete silently with the girl next to them. Just say,

“I always get the spot by the door incase I need to cool down haha.”

She’ll look at you like you just spoke fluent Italian. And if you haven’t gone yet? Go to one CorePower class. You’ll walk out with abs, an ego check, and a whole new respect for girls who can hold crow pose in 105° heat with glazed donut skin and a matching Alo set.

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3. Your Rising Sign

No, not your sun sign. She doesn’t care that you’re a Sagittarius. She wants to know your rising. Because your rising is your vibe. Your aesthetic. Your cover art. Memorize your big three (Sun, Moon, Rising). Say it like this:

“I’m a Leo rising but I swear I’m not a narcissist.”

She’ll laugh, because you kinda are. And she’s down to figure out the rest.

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4. Manifestation

She’s not lucky. She’s aligned. Vision boards, morning affirmations, new moon intentions—this is her cardio. Even if you don’t buy it, just say:

“I feel like everything I want is already mine.”

She’ll blink twice like she’s looking at the man she manifested.

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5. Pet Psychics

I mean, so what if she paid $150 for a woman in Topanga Canyon to tell her that her rescue chihuahua has abandonment wounds from a past life? Do. Not. Laugh. Just nod and say:

“That makes sense, he does seem like an Aries.”

You just became her safe space.

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6. Beef Tallow Skincare

Yes, she puts rendered cow fat on her face, but she doesn’t think you’d know this. So say this casually:

“I’m a big beef tallow guy myself. Sunscreen is pretty toxic.”

She’ll be like yes omg and now you’re in a 15-minute conversation about seed oils. And she’s moving you into boyfriend category. Congrats.

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7. Overnight Oats

She has a mason jar in the fridge with oats, chia seeds, and a Pinterest-level swirl of peanut butter at all times. If you say:

“Overnight oats with cashew milk is kinda superior.”

She’ll stare at you like you’re the first man who’s ever seen her. And honestly, you might be.

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8. Tarot Cards

She has a deck in her nightstand and has 100% pulled a card to decide if she should sleep with you. Ask her:

“What’s your go-to deck?”

She’ll tell you everything about herself while accidentally falling in love.

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9. Attachment Styles

If she’s anxious, she already thinks you’re going to leave. If she’s avoidant, she already wants to leave. If you say:

“I’ve been working on my secure attachment style. Making progress.”

She’ll cancel her next three dates and Google your LinkedIn on the spot.

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10. Soft Launch Protocol

She knows the difference between a story tag, a hard launch, and a back-of-the-head mystery post. If you post her elbow on your story with no caption after a few really good dates?

She’ll whisper “he’s the one” to her group chat.

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Final Note:

Hot girls live in the realm of the hyper specific. It’s not enough to say you’re into wellness—you need to know it’s Symbiotika, not GNC. It’s Solidcore, not just “Pilates.” It’s a rose quartz that was charged under the last full moon in Virgo, not just some random crystal your ex left on your windowsill.

The more niche your references, the more she believes you get it. And getting it is everything. Not because you’re pretending to be her, but because you actually see her. And when a hot girl feels seen without having to explain herself, that’s when she sends the group chat a screenshot and says, “wait… he said this 😭.” That’s the moment you go from just another guy to the guy she can’t stop thinking about.

If you want help building your cool guy presence and learning how to speak her language, book a session with me. We’ll go through your IG, dating profile, and your whole vibe to make sure the next girl you meet can’t stop stalking you.

x Lisa ⚡

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