The Cool Guy’s Weekend Game Plan: Why He Always Wins
The weekend strategy that makes the hottest girls come to you.
Last weekend, I went out with a couple of my girlfriends. We started with a late dinner at one of LA’s newest hot spots—dim lighting, soft music, packed with a crowd that spends more time in Europe than on the Westside. A few rounds of tequila sodas later, we hopped in an Uber and pulled up to a local dive bar around 1 AM.
Now, my friends are hot. Not just “cute girl at a bar” hot—these are the kind of girls who stop conversations when they walk in. They could get any guy they want. But here’s the problem: the guys they want aren’t really out on a Saturday night.
The Dream Guys vs. The Saturday Night Scene
These are the types of guys that hot girls think they want:
Jake, 38 – The Real Estate Investor
• Bicoastal between LA and NYC, spends weekends skiing in Jackson Hole. Knows every private, members-only club in both cities, but you’ll never catch him waiting in a line. If he’s out, it’s a sleek cocktail at Château Marmont before heading home to his perfectly curated Venice townhouse.
Daniel, 35 – The Entertainment Lawyer
• Lives in the Hollywood Hills, wakes up at 6 AM even on weekends. Equinox by 7, work calls by 9, backyard lunch in Los Feliz by 3. His nights out are planned—dinner at Sunset Tower, a gallery opening, maybe a screening. He’s in bed by midnight. Only checks Raya twice a month because he’s busy.
Do you see the issue?
When hot girls go out, they’re not looking for a husband. They know they can match with a Jake or Daniel anytime on Hinge or Raya—but dating apps are a backup plan. The real connections happen in person. That’s why when they’re out having fun, the cool guy is the one who gets their attention.
The Cool Guy: The One She Never Saw Coming
The cool guy isn’t her dream guy on paper. He’s the one she wasn’t expecting—but now, he’s all she can think about.
• He’s at the underground music venues, and somehow, he knows the bartender, the DJ, and half the people there. He’s spontaneous—the night never goes as planned, and that’s what makes it fun.
• He’s magnetic—people want to be around him because he creates the energy, he doesn’t just react to it. He’s a little bit reckless, a little bit mysterious—and that’s what makes him hot.
• He has a complicated coffee order that only he can pull off. He knows every barista by name—but still remains as complex and mysterious as ever.
He has edge. And he’s the guy she talks about the next morning at brunch. And becomes the hot topic in her group chat.
That’s why the cool guy pulls the hottest girls. Because nothing beats in-person chemistry. The Jake and Daniels of the world? They’re still sitting in her matches while she’s obsessing over the guy she met last night.
How to Move Like the Cool Guy This Weekend
✅ Go out with your friends. Stop making every night about meeting girls—make it about having a good time. That energy is what makes you stand out.
✅ Try a new spot for dinner. Cool guys know where to go. If you’re still eating at the same burger place from five years ago, it’s time to switch it up. New places attract new energy.
✅ Be open to the unexpected. The hottest girl you’ll meet probably isn’t where you expect. She’s at a coffee shop, a small house party, a wine tasting, a niche bookstore. The key is to stay in motion.
✅ Use dating apps intentionally. Match with women you’d actually take out, and don’t treat apps like a game you need to “win.” Dating apps are a powerful tool—they give you access to women you’d never meet in real life.
The guys who get the best results? They don’t rely on just one method.
When you’re meeting women both online and in real life, your demand skyrockets. You’re not just a profile—you’re a presence. The guy she sees at an event and hopes she comes across on Hinge.
If you’ve been spending too much time trying to become the “dream guy,” grinding and staying in every weekend—you’re missing the point. The hottest girls aren’t sitting at home waiting for your match. They’re already out.
So this weekend? Make moves. Have fun. Let the right moments happen naturally.
x Lisa ⚡
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