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The Soft Launch: How to Land a Girl Who’s Out of Your League

The Soft Launch: How to Land a Girl Who’s Out of Your League

A step-by-step guide to dating straight 10's.

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Lisa Rosen
Oct 29, 2024
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(My Halloween costume archive felt appropriate)

You’ve spotted her—the girl with effortless energy who turns heads everywhere she goes. You’re convinced she’s out of your league, but I’m here to tell you: follow my exact instructions, and you might just have a shot.

If you’re wondering how average-looking guys end up dating stunning girls, here’s the secret: leagues are a myth. And the second you stop believing they exist, you’ll start winning.

Step 1: Reframe the Narrative

Leagues aren’t what you think. You might imagine hot girls can date any guy they want, that dating is effortless for them, and they’re choosing from a vast pool of eligible guys.

But here’s the twist: she’s not choosing from that pool. Hot girls love the chase and get the ick by the guys who are trying too hard to impress her. She wants a guy with confidence, a good vibe, and a bit of mystery.

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